You Get What You Think
You get what you think.
Interesting, isn't it? True and scary. Every time, over the years, that I have tried to get out of doing something by saying, "I'm sick," strangly enough, I have gotten sick. What's that about? When I find myself thinking I have an expecially full week and wondering how I am going to make it through, I begin to get cancellations. I have friends who leave the house imaging a parking space right where they want it to be. And it is! I leave the house knowing I will find a parking space----somewhere!---- but not in the least certain where that might be. I do always find a place to park. I also often walk several blocks to get where I wanted to go.
Think about it: what happens when you spend a large part of your day grumbling and grouching about what your partner doesn't to to help? Does he/she come home at the end of the day and dive right into straighening the house, doing the laundry, mowing the lawn, making fun plans for the family? Or does she/he take a shower, put on sweats, read the paper, and go to the internet.
Our mind is amazing. Long ago there was a very popular book called, "The Power of Positive Thinking". Equally true is the power of negative thinking. We can think anything into happening, or not happening.
My daughter had a job interview several thousand miles away from her boy friend and she didn't want the job. She didn't even want the interview. Her desire to not go was so powerful she was able to stop the plane from leaving. The weather was unusually terrible and they couldn't take off. A later plane made the interview impossible. I don't believe she stopped that flight all by herself. But I do believe she and some other powerfully minded people got their wish. She made herself ineligible for the unwanted job and others who intended to take that flight got their thoughts responded to as well, whatever it may have been they were thinking about.
Make your relationship the right and perfect one for you. Image it, think it, dream it, talk it, smile about it, bring positive energy and positive feelings into each moment.
Practice being different. Practice thinking 3 times a day about what your partner does that you like. It is easy and familiar to get caught into what needs to be changed, what we don't like, what annoys us, but we totally forget to SEE what is good and special about this person we once adored and with whom we have signed up for a life time together.
Think about it! Really think about it. If you think happy, you feel happy. If you think sad, or sick, or negative or scarcity or illness, that is bound to be what you will get. If you think not enough money, cancer is everywhere, life is tough, nothing good ever happens to me/us, that becomes the reality. If you think, I love my life, the sun is warm and friendly, the rain gives us good, healthy food, the car will look terrific when it gets a nice soapy bath, the kids are a hoot when they play ball in the yard, all that and better will be true.
Give 3 appreciations every day to your partner. Try thinking 3 happy, positive thoughts every morning when you get up. Let me know what happens.
"There is great love here for you!" Warmly, Nancy Ross
Interesting, isn't it? True and scary. Every time, over the years, that I have tried to get out of doing something by saying, "I'm sick," strangly enough, I have gotten sick. What's that about? When I find myself thinking I have an expecially full week and wondering how I am going to make it through, I begin to get cancellations. I have friends who leave the house imaging a parking space right where they want it to be. And it is! I leave the house knowing I will find a parking space----somewhere!---- but not in the least certain where that might be. I do always find a place to park. I also often walk several blocks to get where I wanted to go.
Think about it: what happens when you spend a large part of your day grumbling and grouching about what your partner doesn't to to help? Does he/she come home at the end of the day and dive right into straighening the house, doing the laundry, mowing the lawn, making fun plans for the family? Or does she/he take a shower, put on sweats, read the paper, and go to the internet.
Our mind is amazing. Long ago there was a very popular book called, "The Power of Positive Thinking". Equally true is the power of negative thinking. We can think anything into happening, or not happening.
My daughter had a job interview several thousand miles away from her boy friend and she didn't want the job. She didn't even want the interview. Her desire to not go was so powerful she was able to stop the plane from leaving. The weather was unusually terrible and they couldn't take off. A later plane made the interview impossible. I don't believe she stopped that flight all by herself. But I do believe she and some other powerfully minded people got their wish. She made herself ineligible for the unwanted job and others who intended to take that flight got their thoughts responded to as well, whatever it may have been they were thinking about.
Make your relationship the right and perfect one for you. Image it, think it, dream it, talk it, smile about it, bring positive energy and positive feelings into each moment.
Practice being different. Practice thinking 3 times a day about what your partner does that you like. It is easy and familiar to get caught into what needs to be changed, what we don't like, what annoys us, but we totally forget to SEE what is good and special about this person we once adored and with whom we have signed up for a life time together.
Think about it! Really think about it. If you think happy, you feel happy. If you think sad, or sick, or negative or scarcity or illness, that is bound to be what you will get. If you think not enough money, cancer is everywhere, life is tough, nothing good ever happens to me/us, that becomes the reality. If you think, I love my life, the sun is warm and friendly, the rain gives us good, healthy food, the car will look terrific when it gets a nice soapy bath, the kids are a hoot when they play ball in the yard, all that and better will be true.
Give 3 appreciations every day to your partner. Try thinking 3 happy, positive thoughts every morning when you get up. Let me know what happens.
"There is great love here for you!" Warmly, Nancy Ross
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