BIG BLIZZARD COMING!!!!
Oh, My! What a fuss and kerfuffle. Last night's news suggested we might be snowed in for months. Get the army out AGAIN!
Today we have lots of snow. It is cold. I am glad to be inside. No HUGE BLIZZARD.
It occurs to me relationships are like that. All geared up for a BATTLE. Watch out! Here it comes.....hipper alert to the devastating and frightening potential disconnect between you. And.....you leap right over that one. You have learned how to keep each other safe and you do not need to fight for your rightful place in the landscape of your relationship. It is your legacy, not even a privilege, but your right to expect that the two of you know how to respect each other and keep love warm and alive between you.
I think we have something to learn from bears. Other animals who have enough sense to hibernate as well. They hunker down, curl up, hide away, tummy full and sleep. Restorative, glorious, nurturing, blissful sleep all the way through Jan. and Feb. Perfect! What a lovely image for you and your partner to create together. Snuggling up in front of a fire place or candles, books available to read to each other, snacks handy, romantic music, feeling relaxed and safe and in love. That's what winter snow storms are about.
Of course, you may well have three or four little pumpkins wanting in on the action. The titles and themes of the books you read to each other may change! You may chose cocoa instead of wine, or in my case scotch. The result may well be similar however: love making/sex is terrific. Loving with the whole family is delicious.
Happy winter moments and happy loving dreams. Nancy
Today we have lots of snow. It is cold. I am glad to be inside. No HUGE BLIZZARD.
It occurs to me relationships are like that. All geared up for a BATTLE. Watch out! Here it comes.....hipper alert to the devastating and frightening potential disconnect between you. And.....you leap right over that one. You have learned how to keep each other safe and you do not need to fight for your rightful place in the landscape of your relationship. It is your legacy, not even a privilege, but your right to expect that the two of you know how to respect each other and keep love warm and alive between you.
I think we have something to learn from bears. Other animals who have enough sense to hibernate as well. They hunker down, curl up, hide away, tummy full and sleep. Restorative, glorious, nurturing, blissful sleep all the way through Jan. and Feb. Perfect! What a lovely image for you and your partner to create together. Snuggling up in front of a fire place or candles, books available to read to each other, snacks handy, romantic music, feeling relaxed and safe and in love. That's what winter snow storms are about.
Of course, you may well have three or four little pumpkins wanting in on the action. The titles and themes of the books you read to each other may change! You may chose cocoa instead of wine, or in my case scotch. The result may well be similar however: love making/sex is terrific. Loving with the whole family is delicious.
Happy winter moments and happy loving dreams. Nancy
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