Healing the Disconnection

Because I use this blog as a place to process my own journey and try to turn that into suggested next steps or possible learning for others, I feel you deserve for me to update you re: the stress between my daughter and me. All is well. We came together in the bathroom in the House of Flavors in Ludington with heartfelt hugs and words of sorrow and willingness to explore together what happened. Both of us felt no need to process at all at the moment and are relieved to feel the loving reconnection.

Lesson for those of you who read this and care: take your time and be patient and stay grounded in the loving and the desire for connection. Defensiveness is not useful. Open mindedness and good intent facilitates disconnection every time. This is true for you with partner, family, friends, at work, neighbours,just generally speaking in life.

Write to me about your successes. Trusting that under the hurt lives the love and what everyone of us wants is security: helps to heal the disconnect as well. More about security. I use the word safety. Caroline Myss uses security. We mean the same.

Have you read her book: Anatomy of The Spirit? It is excellent. I will spend some time this afternoon sharing what I have learned and relearned. She makes so much Imago sense.

Have a good morning. Nancy