Let Someone Love You
Land! That last post in blue is a blinder to the eyes! I am so very sorry. No more of that. Promise
The Couture-Ross household has once again stretched into a new normal! Clo is no longer high on steroids and is instead, exhausted and in pain and nauseous on the new even more powerful chemo she is taking in pill form at home. I am working less for a while to help support and keep her feeling safe and connected. Working less and getting ready to pick up again.
I am not minding the slowed down work schedule for awhile. I LOVE the work. Want to keep doing it. And, I need to be wise to myself, Clo and clients re: my emotional strength. All of my clients understand and I am grateful to them and to the universe for the support and caring I know is there for me and for Clo. I am watching her get worse before she can get better and we both are hanging on to hands and facing the now together.
Her dream, for when this is all behind us , is to go to France for three months to take a class to learn much more about wine. What fun! Both for her and for me. We dream together.
Every relationship needs a dream, individually and together. My dream is to take some classes and join a mystery book readers club and add much more music and theatre into my life. Clo's dream is three months in France and I will join her for part of that. It gives us opportunity to smile together, to get excited, to share our hopes for those dreams, to stay in connection at an intimate level.
Family and friends fill our lives with positive and healing energy, joy and laughter, terrific diversion. AND we need to feed ourselves and fill our relationship with a new and deeper love and commitment to healing, growing, stretching and learning.
My gift to you: always grow. Together and separately. If you don't, by default, you will grow apart. That is way too lonely and unhealthy. Lack of connection and nurturing leads to shriveling up and being blow away in the wind like a dead, brown leaf in late autumn. Your heart shrivels, your mind shrinks, and your body withers. Love and intimate connection keep you fresh, alive, and warm. Feeling securely attached lets you freely give and receive life.
I encourage you to think of someone you care about, and ask them to share a dream for the future and tell them a dream you have. Then check in with each other frequently to see how much positive energy you are feeling when you think about this dream you shared. If the energy is dragging, change the dream. ALWAYS have something to look forward to. ALWAYS feel you are being intentional about keeping your connection with those who matter to you as well as your spirit self and nature. I talked about magic a while ago. Magic and love. You have to create your own magic. Let someone you love join you in that divine creation.
Hugs to you for now. Let someone love you. You deserve it. Nancy
The Couture-Ross household has once again stretched into a new normal! Clo is no longer high on steroids and is instead, exhausted and in pain and nauseous on the new even more powerful chemo she is taking in pill form at home. I am working less for a while to help support and keep her feeling safe and connected. Working less and getting ready to pick up again.
I am not minding the slowed down work schedule for awhile. I LOVE the work. Want to keep doing it. And, I need to be wise to myself, Clo and clients re: my emotional strength. All of my clients understand and I am grateful to them and to the universe for the support and caring I know is there for me and for Clo. I am watching her get worse before she can get better and we both are hanging on to hands and facing the now together.
Her dream, for when this is all behind us , is to go to France for three months to take a class to learn much more about wine. What fun! Both for her and for me. We dream together.
Every relationship needs a dream, individually and together. My dream is to take some classes and join a mystery book readers club and add much more music and theatre into my life. Clo's dream is three months in France and I will join her for part of that. It gives us opportunity to smile together, to get excited, to share our hopes for those dreams, to stay in connection at an intimate level.
Family and friends fill our lives with positive and healing energy, joy and laughter, terrific diversion. AND we need to feed ourselves and fill our relationship with a new and deeper love and commitment to healing, growing, stretching and learning.
My gift to you: always grow. Together and separately. If you don't, by default, you will grow apart. That is way too lonely and unhealthy. Lack of connection and nurturing leads to shriveling up and being blow away in the wind like a dead, brown leaf in late autumn. Your heart shrivels, your mind shrinks, and your body withers. Love and intimate connection keep you fresh, alive, and warm. Feeling securely attached lets you freely give and receive life.
I encourage you to think of someone you care about, and ask them to share a dream for the future and tell them a dream you have. Then check in with each other frequently to see how much positive energy you are feeling when you think about this dream you shared. If the energy is dragging, change the dream. ALWAYS have something to look forward to. ALWAYS feel you are being intentional about keeping your connection with those who matter to you as well as your spirit self and nature. I talked about magic a while ago. Magic and love. You have to create your own magic. Let someone you love join you in that divine creation.
Hugs to you for now. Let someone love you. You deserve it. Nancy
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